Our son and daughter-in-law traveled to Peru in September. As a gift for helping to take care of their children, my son brought me back two balls of alpaca yarn, bought from the woman in the photo above. He told me it was difficult to make her understand he wanted to buy just some of the yarn in her basket, not one of her blankets, sweaters or hats. I imagine it was an unusual request. But he succeeded and came away with it. He gave it to me with the stipulation I had to make it into something for myself. So I saved it till after the holidays to do just that.
I wanted to find a pattern that would be something like what it would have been made into had the woman in the market worked it. I decided to make an infinity scarf, knitted in the round with a stranded chart worked twice, with two sections of stripes in between. The colors are so soft that the contrast in the charted stitches becomes muted and a bit difficult to see. The yarn is very fine, and wound tightly into dense balls. I think that’s one of the reasons it continues to twist back on itself while I knit. I did some research and found someone who keeps the balls in Ziploc bags, making it easier to hang them and let them unwind themselves. Still, as I knit I’m noticing a twisting in the knitting. I’m hoping with blocking I will be able to correct some of that. In any case, I’m enjoying the process and the thoughtfulness of the kids’ gift.
I included some pictures of the knitting I did for Christmas, two blankets, three scarves, and three of the cutest jumpers made for our three youngest granddaughters. I couldn’t have been happier with how the jumpers turned out!
I also got back to drawing and painting. The cardinal is painted in watercolors from a photo I shot last winter. The poinsettia is done in color pencils. Unfortunately, when I’m under a deadline, art and reading are the first things to get dropped. It’s nice to get back into doing it on a regular basis.
Yesterday I just finished reading Michelle Obama’s book Becoming. I was on the wait list at the library for some time. As it turned out, that was a good thing for me. Not just because I wouldn’t have had time to read it during the holidays, but also because I needed the shot of adrenaline it gave me. Having lived in Chicago for a few years, I enjoyed reading about where she came from. Also how they met. As you read you relive the sorrows and the joys of what happened in the years of his terms. At times you wonder why anyone would ever run for president.
But in the end, it makes you want to get to work. It reminded me even more why Paul and I took on being chairs of our local Democratic party. Living in a red state, and an even redder county, it’s easy to lose hope. We took the “job” in April, I retired from my real job in June. Our daughter says it all the time; “you retired to take on a fulltime job without pay.” And all we’ve been through is a midterm election. We’re starting now to gear up for the general!
We had a difficult summer and fall taking care of elderly parents. I made two trips to Texas over the summer to take care of my mom and my mother-in-law had to move in with us the end of August. In a way, it’s a lot like dealing with kids again, but so much harder. They need your help, they even ask you for your help, and then they fight against the help. And you’re left without any way to deal with them because they are adults. To say we’ve been on an emotional rollercoaster is a vast understatement.
So being retired helped allow for all of that work to be done. I always dreamed of what retirement would look like. There would be all the time I desired to knit, read, draw and paint, sew, cook, spend time with family, volunteer, learn new things, a lot of time camping at the lake, and I would never care about the clock or the calendar. And I’m so lucky that’s mostly the way it is. But life doesn’t always follow the plan exactly. The important thing for me is to keep busy and moving forward.